I recently met DC socialite Dwayne McKie for dinner at his favorite restaurant, Ambrosia Grill. Unlike his online persona of being a playboy, who travels internationally and has friends wordlwide, I was surprised to he was very friendly and talkative. He was looking back on a lot of lessons he learned early on in the social scene of Washington D.C. He says that younger guys go crazy when they see an attractive women so that all their common sense goes out the window. He says white men go crazy over breasts while, Hispanic and Black men go crazy over "ass". He finds that even with his good reputation, buying women a drink will not impress them. In fact, he told me recently when he had a bar tab and bought some ladies he met some drinks, they left the club as soon as they were done drinking! So unlike his sweet disposition, he is always ready to fold. This is his biggest trick to relationships, the best way to get a girlfriend is by sitting back and waiting to see what happens. He says that getting a girlfriend is mostly luck which is affected by random encounters and even karma. He says that once a girl knows you’re looking for a relationship, she will be less enthusiastic about one. At the end of the day he says women have the power to say no but he tries to keep women on their toes working for HIS attention. This is his Love Potion, leaving the option to move on. You need to continually check in on your relationship. The best partners are ones who insure themselves, and their mates are satisfied. It's unhealthy to assume that you will always be together, I think. Real life is not fairy tale romance like you see in movies. Hope you enjoyed these wise words from a wise man.
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