You See A Hot Girl, Now What?

These girls can be yours, as long as you
don't interrogate them

When reading Neil Strauss' The Game I realized there is an art of first impressions, that creates seduction. Women want to be seduced, they want a romantic experience, like they're being swept off their feet. When men think about picking up girls, they automatically start asking them questions. They can be smart questions, dumb questions, opinions, or open ended questions. By asking questions mixed with intimidation, all you’re going to get is a fake age/name, some information you don’t care about, or the finger in some cases. The key to building attraction in women is building the emotional connection. When you give girls an emotional reaction whether positive or negative it builds attraction. In my experience, the guys that I'm attracted to are the ones that I feel like I've known forever- even if we've just met. Because let’s face it, women are emotional, they love feelings, and are on emotional roller coasters. I have heard more of my friends pine over guys that ignore them than men who adore them. Trust me, women won’t appreciate the interest. Women don’t want to feel like they are on a job interview, there’s nothing enticing about that. Instead of using questions, use statements. Have you notice how you talk to your best friend? Friends that are close, often talk in statement form telling each other their opinions and ideas.  Breed that confidence and intimacy with a girl instantly by using this tactic. “Remember it’s not a game, it’s being your best self”.