Are Woman With Many Male Friends to be Trusted?

So it’s been a looong day at work & I have been counting down the days to my female cousin’s birthday party tomorrow, mostly because I just moved to a new country and wanted to make some girlfriends in the area. This will be my first time meeting her friends so I asked her if she has a lot of girls coming to her party & she said a couple of her close friends from since she was little were coming and they all live hours away. So at first I was like great, I’ll be going to a sausage fest, but then I thought: What causes women to have many more male friends than girlfriends?

I dug around the internet and found this blog written by a womanizer Sinn called: “Never Trust a Girl with Too Many Guy Friends.” And wow, did he know what he was talking about. He pretty said that since women are naturally competitive with each other about picking the perfect mate (since the caveman days) due to the tested and accepted premises of evolutionary psychology. So, girls who don’t get along with other women and don’t have a lot of girlfriends are subconsciously doing it to eliminate competition. Girls are naturally supposed to get along better with other girls than men, remember my favorite book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.  

He said women who don’t have at leave 40% female friends tend to cheat infinitely more than girls who have an abundance of girlfriends. They can come off weird and needy to men because they don’t have the same level of support system with which to discuss their problems. And interestingly, he said that many of these women cheat simply because they are insecure due to the fact that they alienated by their own sex. Women who have mostly guy best friends can’t be trusted and under the same premise, men with mostly female friends are not to be trusted either.

To play devil’s advocate, sometimes women hold onto to guy friends because they want honest advice about men from a man. I mean although I dish out 10 times more advice than I receive, when I do ask my female friends for advice I usually get horrible advice from them that ends up backfiring on me either pushing the guy away or making me look desperate (to me, looking desperate is the Worst relationship poison). Weak men are threatened by their girlfriend’s abundance of guy friends, like in my case with my ex, and they will do everything they can to push these friends away including intimidation, threats, or even abusive social isolation.

The most common reason why women end up this way is because “Daddy Issues” we will delve into this in detail on my next blog…watch out for it early next week! Other reasons can be: they were a tomboy growing up, she had a close group of female friends that turned on her and traumatized her from being close with females again, she’s more interested in work or sports than hair and make-up and simply isn’t very feminine (and cannot relate), or she was raised by a single dad or a family with primarily males.

I’m not suggesting in anyway that girls in this situation should ex-communicate all their guy friends and go out trying to look for girl friends on every street corner. On the flip side, women with only girlfriends, and no guy friends,  aren’t to be trusted either. I mean any girl that can’t get along with half of the population has some sort of issue. The problem with these kind of girls is they might bring their girlfriends along on all of your nights out, expect you to pay for their girls, will refuse to be a “good sport” (by watching football games with their significant other or whatever other male activity they enjoy), and maybe worst will constantly be surrounding their boyfriends in girltalk. So men take your pick.

Do Italian Men Fit The Stereotype?

         So if you're looking for a fun time at the Jershey Shore for the summer,snagging a Guido would be the natural gut reaction. But if you're looking for a tall dark and handsome guy who is both romantic AND can cook, well you have to go to Italy for that. When you asked I was up for the mission, I sent out my team to do field research to reveal the beautiful and ugly truth of Italian men. Men from Italy are the real secret weapon, they are passionate in mind, body, and spirit.You don't even need to speak Italian!...because they are fluent in the language of love and in some cases may even speak and understand Spanish. But I mean who can complain about hearing non-sensical Italian gibberish for hours? If you spend times with real Italian men you will feel assured that you will be reminded how beautiful you are on a consistent basis. Their favorite sayings are: "Bella!", "Amore!", "Te Amo", and "Bella Rigatze".

        The common stereotypes are that Italian men are great lovers, passionate, romantic,great cooks, they eat pasta.These have all been confirmed. But the dangers of Italian men is that they are known to be players and have a wandering eye that sometimes can't be tamed. The best way to handle these player types is to remember this saying: "The looser the hand, the tighter the grip". That means the less you suffocate these men the more they will flock towards you. Italian men are all about "Le Dolce Vita' the would like nothing more than to share the bed and day with a beautiful women,cook her pasta, drink wine,and waste the day away. Not only do they have good genes, they have great JEANS! Italian men dress impeccably, unless you're put off by men in skinnies, a shirts slightly on the tighter side. They are such free spirits are heart, structure and schedules are not in their vocabulary.But for a rebound,short fling, or summer romance they can be the perfect fit. Women please tread with caution, buckle your seat belts,and enjoy the ride!