How to Raise Your Libido in 8 Easy Steps

1.      Polish your swagger!! Take care of your appearance and of course your body- which builds your confidence. Remember, you are what you eat so when you are physically healthy you feel good emotionally as well. And when you are excited from physical activity you see others as more attractive due to the excitation principle. Exercise also releases endorphins and gives you confidence in your body- so it is the perfect foreplay as well.
2.     Work your Look: Get a makeover/under, take care of yourself buy your self some sexy new clothes or accessories that make you feel totally comfortable and confident. Take a stylish friend shopping with you if you are not sure what to get. Spending money and taking care of yourself will give you more confidence. It’s like an investment when you take care of it you can rest assured knowing you will at one point cash in.
3.      Fake It Until you make it.Positive messages on your mirror like “hey sexy” etc. change your mental script in your head from negative to positive. When you start acting like the sexy, confident, assured person that you are you will become that person. Because if you want someone to want you, you must first love thyself.
4.      Revise Your Crew. Have a few wingmen/women on call. Make sure your crew is drama-free and outgoing in order to encourage a strong sexual appetite. Ones that let you be you and are easy going that will get your mojo flowing. When you are always on guard and anxious around friends you will not be encouraged to  have a good time so cut the excess weight. 
5.      Be Social! You have to swing the bat to hit the ball. So make sure you’re out and about giving you that “single state of mind”. Test drive some new places out of your comfort zone, it will get you into an adventurous mindset and your buddies for support. Have a few drinks and loosen up – and watch that mojo start flowing.
6.      Give Everyone A Chance. Sometimes once you get to know someone they might surprise you. Be with a variety of people to learn what you do and don’t like. Because after all, variety is the spice of life, Some people stick to the same type  and then wonder why they get the same outcomes, if you want a boost in libido you must seek out other adventurous people even if it’s not your usual type.
7.      Be a Flirt. Show off your new look and mind set by sharing it with others. People will feed off your energy making it a positive exchange. When your flirting with other attaractive people, it is hard not to get aroused. And remember: sex appeal is one half what you got and one half what others think you got.
8.       Be adventurous and spontaneous. Don’t be afraid to approach the hottie in the corner and ask them for their number- or on a date! It’s a numbers game and not matter who you are, if you try enough times you will get your target's number. And among those numbers, you will get a date. You must act if you want your libido back on track. When you’ve made it to this stage, your libido will be in tip top shape in no time