The Daddy Issue Series Volume I

Your legs aren't a pair of scissors, CLOSE THEM!

             

 Daddy Issues is the modern day derivation coming from the Electro Complex developed by my favorite psychologist Carl Jung. It comes from the notion that women harvest some sort of sexual attachment with their fathers, many might question the notion but it remains that when women don’t receive the proper attention from their fathers, she may seek to find that attention from other men.

So How Exactly do you Identify Women with Daddy Issues?

Women with these “Daddy Issues” commonly manifest this lack of attention from their fathers in: excessive flirtation, promiscuity, dressing provocatively, tendencies towards exhibitionism, sexual aggressiveness, and any kind of emotional hang ups either personally, socially, or in relationships. 

How Do You Deal With Problems Associated with Women who Harbor Daddy Issues?

·      Sexual Aggressiveness: If a woman is impatient to hit the sack with you then it is up to the man to hit the brakes on it. Try to schedule a date before doing the deed in order to get to know her better. Showing her that you’re trying to get to know her will hint that she should tone down her sexuality and she will instantly put you in a different category which will impress her.

·      Excessive Flirting: This probably attracted you to her in the first place but now you just can’t take it anymore. Put your foot down and tell her it’s not okay and take it as a sign she needs more attention from you whether it be intimate attention or physically, she is not getting a need met if she is flirting excessively with other men.

Is It Possible to Change These Women from Daddy Issues to Girlfriend Material?

Yes. Glad you asked. Women with Daddy Issues are generally acting out to fix a significant wound inside themselves. They are not to be blamed for such behavior because it is caused by external forces of  trauma and terror brought on by their fathers, or more commonly lack thereof.  Blaming these women or calling them sluts is just cruel after reading what they go through like in the following excerpt:

“My parents divorced when I was 6, and after that, my father virtually vanished from my life. When I was 12, he relinquished all parental rights so he wouldn't have to pay child support. His desertion created a void that inevitably left me feeling unloved and insecure. After all, if your dad doesn't love you, why should anyone else?         As a teen, I transferred those feelings of inadequacy to my relationships with guys. I'd dump boyfriends quickly, scared that if I didn't, they'd beat me to it. When I got to college, my insecurities took on a more passive form: I'd stay with men who did drugs and cheated on me.” - Excerpt from Marie Clair article

But these women can be changed (Take Angelina Jolie for example).  Once you show her enough attention she won’t need to look else where to get the attention she is seeking.  Once women find inner peace with their fatherly issues, like in Angelina Jolie’s case she stopped talking to her dad and starting traveling the world doing humantarian aid, but whatever makes you happy right? For more information on getting over these issues or helping your love interest, girlfriend, best friends that a girl, or etc… gift her this book “Where Were You When I Needed You, Dad?: A Guide for Healing Your Father Wounds” By Dr. Jane Myers

There is more to come to stay tuned to this all inclusive Daddy Issue Series....