How to Raise Your Libido in 8 Easy Steps

1.      Polish your swagger!! Take care of your appearance and of course your body- which builds your confidence. Remember, you are what you eat so when you are physically healthy you feel good emotionally as well. And when you are excited from physical activity you see others as more attractive due to the excitation principle. Exercise also releases endorphins and gives you confidence in your body- so it is the perfect foreplay as well.
2.     Work your Look: Get a makeover/under, take care of yourself buy your self some sexy new clothes or accessories that make you feel totally comfortable and confident. Take a stylish friend shopping with you if you are not sure what to get. Spending money and taking care of yourself will give you more confidence. It’s like an investment when you take care of it you can rest assured knowing you will at one point cash in.
3.      Fake It Until you make it.Positive messages on your mirror like “hey sexy” etc. change your mental script in your head from negative to positive. When you start acting like the sexy, confident, assured person that you are you will become that person. Because if you want someone to want you, you must first love thyself.
4.      Revise Your Crew. Have a few wingmen/women on call. Make sure your crew is drama-free and outgoing in order to encourage a strong sexual appetite. Ones that let you be you and are easy going that will get your mojo flowing. When you are always on guard and anxious around friends you will not be encouraged to  have a good time so cut the excess weight. 
5.      Be Social! You have to swing the bat to hit the ball. So make sure you’re out and about giving you that “single state of mind”. Test drive some new places out of your comfort zone, it will get you into an adventurous mindset and your buddies for support. Have a few drinks and loosen up – and watch that mojo start flowing.
6.      Give Everyone A Chance. Sometimes once you get to know someone they might surprise you. Be with a variety of people to learn what you do and don’t like. Because after all, variety is the spice of life, Some people stick to the same type  and then wonder why they get the same outcomes, if you want a boost in libido you must seek out other adventurous people even if it’s not your usual type.
7.      Be a Flirt. Show off your new look and mind set by sharing it with others. People will feed off your energy making it a positive exchange. When your flirting with other attaractive people, it is hard not to get aroused. And remember: sex appeal is one half what you got and one half what others think you got.
8.       Be adventurous and spontaneous. Don’t be afraid to approach the hottie in the corner and ask them for their number- or on a date! It’s a numbers game and not matter who you are, if you try enough times you will get your target's number. And among those numbers, you will get a date. You must act if you want your libido back on track. When you’ve made it to this stage, your libido will be in tip top shape in no time

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Why Do Women Give Out Their Phone Number and Not Answer?

Posted by Marni on June 22, 2009 · 21 Comments 

You’re at a bar talking to a girl you really like and think “she’s totally into me. I’m going to ask for her number”.

You: Can I get your number so we can hang out again some time?

Her: Sure.

You: Great. I’ll give you a call.

You go home all pumped up, excited, patting yourself on the back.

Then two days later you call.

NO ANSWER.

Of course you give it one more try because with modern technology wires get crossed and messages get erased 

Still NO ANSWER.

Then you think “WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH WOMEN?”

Why do they do this?

Why do they give out their phone number and not answer their phone?

Do they know this at the time? or do they decide later?

I have been in this situation MANY times and the answer for is usually I had no intention of ever answering the phone.

I was not interested and just being polite.

From the time women are born they are taught to be proud, polite, respectful ladies.

Ladies, who don’t tell you to your face if they are not into you. That is not polite or proper.

Instead we do it behind your back.

I have been one of those ladies many many times.

I have given my number over and over again with absolutely no intention of answering the phone.

I know it’s wrong but it’s so much easier and less awkward to give out my number then to say “sorry I’m so not into you and I will never answer my phone when you call. I do not want to go out with you.”

Listen, when I go out I enjoy talking to people.

I especially like talking with men but usually within the first 2 minutes, actually it’s more like 30 seconds, I can tell if I am going to want to see a guy past that evening. But I am enjoying my conversation with him.

Does this mean that I have to cut off the conversation with him? Should I be that presumptuous that he is into me and that I should cut it off before I hurt his feelings?

So I usually continue talking because I am enjoying myself and then the awkward moment comes when they ask for my number.

I freeze up, get nervous and give out my phone number feeling guilty the whole time.

It’s horrible, I know, but it’s what I do. It’s what all of my girlfriends do and what most women in the world do.

I don’t know a lot of women that can be strong enough to say “You know what I had a great time with you this evening but I think this is the end of the road for our relationship. It was nice meeting you. Goodbye”.

Doesn’t happen often.

So basically what I am telling you is that a number doesn’t mean a success.

The real success is when you actually get that women to answer the phone and go out on a date.

So what can you do to fight against this?

You learn about women.

You learn what they like and what they don’t like.

You figure out how to read their body language so that you know, even before they do, when they are into you and that getting her number will lead to a date or or relationship or sex.

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Friend Hopping

Like bar hopping, coming in the restaurant/bar with one friend and leaving with another than proceeding to post game with yet another(s). That, is "friend hopping" it seems like our constant communication and connectedness makes it hard for us to be alone and more and with a stronger need for affiliation. This could be a double edge sword because although having strong, meaningful social contact is good for soul, relying on friends too much is evil and can create a dependent personality. You always want to be okay on your own, so put down that phone and enjoy the moment. When you have too many friends whether it be amicable or romantic, it makes it hard to truly appreciate each one. When you start confusing facts and experiences between friends, that’s when you know you have too many. Sometimes I will ask a friend the same question multiple times because I forgot their answer and that’s a good indicator that you can’t keep your friends straight, or that you have a horrible memory. Other indicators are when you name the wrong person in a story or when you swear that one of your friends was there but they are sure they weren’t. IN order to be a good friend, you need to fully appreciate each one, so don’t spread yourself too thin. Instead with friends and hook-ups, set high standards and be selective. No matter what you do, getting everyone to like you is impossible so don’t try. Being selective with friends will ensure your life stays drama free and frees up your time for more productive things so it is the friend Rx for everyone.